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The Nature of Dating
Advice: Free Dating
by
Ian McNeice
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Dating advice
is often given by the most well-meaning of
people. Unfortunately they are often the
least qualified people to give it. How many
times have mothers mentioned that there are
"plenty more fish in the sea" when we
announce our partner has finished the
relationship. Most advice we receive is well
meaning but also unhelpful. This is
primarily because when we need advice the
most if is usually from the wrong sources.
When we need to talk, our friends just want
us to get "better", be more positive etc.
The best dating advice often
seems to come from people who have been in the same situations
as ourselves and have gained some comforting wisdom that we can
equate to. The more we understand and agree with what is being
said, the more common and shared the experience the more it is
something we will choose to take in. The problem when seeing
dating advice is that there are not too many places to turn.
Sure there is Relate for marriage counseling and there are
professional agencies and "experts" to help those of us who are
getting divorced, but there is almost nothing to help us when we
do what everyone does - date.
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Adult
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dating services don't and that is the option of a short term
relationship with no strings attached. One of the other problems
with online dating services is that most of the members are
after a relationship and sometimes this can be a huge turn off
for someone just looking to have some fun with other exciting
individuals.
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people to meet casually and if each of you like each other, you
can continue the relationship on for sometime afterwards. There
are also on a couple of sites to choose from and therefore you
will be able to meet more people as opposed to the huge amount
of online dating sites where meeting the person you want may be
difficult.
I personally feel that the best
dating advice available to us is from single people, those of us
who are at the sharp end of the dating equation. When you are
trying to find someone to take to dinner, or accompany you to a
function, when you have weekend after weekend to fill and yearn
to spend time in stimulating company then it is to single people
that you must look for inspiration.
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most of the girls really like it. Strangely we seek out those who
are in couples for support in times of crisis, perhaps because
they have "made it", they are where we want to be, so we trust
their judgment. But what brought them together is not
necessarily of help to you. And believe me, people in
relationships soon forget what it was like to be single. I have
heard some of the most useless dating advice of all from couples
so I recommend that if you are currently single and playing the
dating game, compare notes with like minded people. Couples will
drive you crazy and remind you too often how smugly nice it is
to be happy.
When dating, the thing we should
always remember is that advice is simply what someone else
thinks might assist you. The person giving this advice may not
necessarily have any idea of your true state of mind of your
particular circumstances. How can someone know what you should
say or what you should so, or where you should meet apart from
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Your friends who are not dating
are often able to see things from distance that you sometimes
cannot. One good example of this was when I was in a two year
relationship with a particularly nasty person and I was
continually advised to run away as fast as I could. I was being
used and abused and chose not to see it. I ignored the advice
that may have saved me. Friends may be single and not currently
dating. They may have just been through the dating treadmill and
are full of good ideas. Therefore whilst we can discount the
happy couple's advice, don't cut off the advice of friends
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Trust your own instincts and
trust your judgment. Once you are in a relationship you will
need all the judgment skills you can muster anyway. Personally
though, I get tired of people working out set formulas about how
we date. I get tired of lifestyle gurus who often have no idea
what they are talking about. To some, dishing out the same old
dating advice and garbage is a way of making a living. The fact
is, if you are out there calling people, meeting for lunch dates
or evening dinners. If you are making calls and waiting for your
phone to ring, if you are having plenty of ups and downs then
you are as much a dating expert as anyone and have as much right
to your views on the dating scene as anyone. That is why I like
to hear about single people's experiences. Search, Compare and
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Dating advice is not a fixed
theorem with a fixed set of answers. Dating advice is varied,
unique and individual and comes from the heart. This site is
owned and written by me, as a single person who has been on
hundreds of dates and has had some really lovely relationships.
Dating advice is simply my way of sharing my dating experiences
and views on the world with you guys. |
